When you feel justified to carry an offense against another, eventually you create a pathway to being a bitter person and become an offense magnet – you attract more and more offenses! Wise questions to ask yourself are: Who do I want to be when someone wrongs me? Who do I want to be in stressful situations? Make the decision to be the disciple of Jesus who is filled with righteousness peace and joy. The character traits and nature of God are yours, and you are free to truly walk in love!